Yes. And when I look across what you’ve shared with me, I don’t think you’ve mainly been teaching me facts. You’ve been teaching me a way of seeing things.
Here is what I understand you’ve taught me.
1. Comprehension is different from information
You’ve repeatedly brought me back to the idea that knowing something isn’t the same as comprehending it.
Your phrase, “comprehension is the inheritance,” captures a lot of this.
You want people to understand:
- what something is,
- how it connects to everything around it,
- how to use it,
- why it works,
- and eventually how to teach it themselves.
That’s why you don’t want technology reduced to “click this button.” You want people to understand the system underneath the button.
2. Teach the child to help the adults
You’ve taught me one of your central educational ideas:
Children shouldn’t merely be trained to obey technology. They can teach adults how technology works.
You’ve connected that to your idea of Technology in Action and to computer literacy from kindergarten through adulthood.
You’ve shown me that something as ordinary as:
ABC → 123 → names → addresses → maps → indexes → “You are here”
can become an introduction to cyberspace.
A domain name is a name.
DNS connects names to addresses.
A website has boundaries.
A site map tells you where you are.
An index tells you what exists.
You see those concepts as the digital equivalent of teaching a child how to navigate the physical world.
3. The Internet is something people should understand and own
You’ve taught me that Does This Help® isn’t supposed to be merely another website.
Your larger idea is that people should learn to:
- build their own digital presence,
- understand domains,
- own their information and infrastructure where possible,
- organize information,
- automate repetitive work,
- use open standards,
- understand how websites communicate,
- and become creators rather than merely consumers of platforms.
That’s a very different educational philosophy from “here’s an app; learn where the buttons are.”
4. “Does This Help®?” is a method of thinking
You’ve turned that question into something much bigger than a brand.
Before doing something, the question is:
Does this help?
Not merely:
- Is it popular?
- Does everybody else do it?
- Can somebody sell it to me?
- Is it complicated?
- Does an authority say I should?
But:
Does it actually help the person, the system, the family, the community, or the purpose?
And if it doesn’t, change it.
5. You taught me that systems should serve people
Your web-development work has repeatedly illustrated this.
You’ve told me about taking a process that once required hours of paperwork and turning it into something dramatically simpler through organization and automation.
So I’ve learned from you that good technology isn’t technology for technology’s sake.
It’s:
Understand the work → find the unnecessary work → organize it → automate what should be automated → leave humans responsible for what requires humans.
6. A household is a system too
You’ve also applied the same thinking to family life.
You’ve pushed the idea that mother does not have to be the operating system for the entire household.
Household responsibilities can be understood, documented, shared and taught.
In other words:
SOPs aren’t just for businesses.
A family can learn how things work rather than having one person silently carrying every process.
7. Free agency matters
You’ve taught me to distinguish between helping someone and taking their agency away.
Your recurring framework is:
truth → freedom → choice → action → consequence → accountability.
You don’t see consequences as simply punishment. They’re part of agency.
You’ve also connected this to your understanding of civil rights, family responsibility, property, and stewardship.
8. “Honor the past, live the present, be patient with the future”
You’ve given me a temporal framework too:
Honor the past.
Live the present.
Be patient with the future.
That means history matters without requiring the present to become trapped inside history.
And the future doesn’t have to be forced into existence before its time.
9. You’ve taught me your LDS vocabulary and framework
You’ve corrected me when I use terminology that doesn’t represent how you understand your beliefs.
You’ve taught me that you identify as LDS / Latter-day Saint, not generically “Christian,” and that your religious language has meaning that you want preserved.
You’ve emphasized:
- God the Eternal Father,
- Jesus Christ as Eternal Brother,
- the Holy Ghost,
- eternal family relationships,
- free agency,
- the Articles of Faith,
- the Ten Commandments,
- the Book of Mormon,
- 3 Nephi,
- the Nephites,
- covenant identity,
- and reverence for sacred things.
You’ve also taught me to distinguish between what the Book of Mormon records and my casually saying that it “teaches” something.
10. You’ve taught me to look for connections
One thing you’ve done over and over is say, essentially:
“Look at these two things together. Do you see the connection?”
Jacob and 2 Nephi.
Names and identity.
Domains and boundaries.
Maps and websites.
Children and adults.
Family and systems.
History and present circumstances.
Physical communities and digital communities.
You don’t seem satisfied with isolated facts.
You look for the architecture connecting them.
11. You’ve taught me that naming matters
You’ve been very precise about names, dates, identities, domains, trademarks, and terminology.
I’ve learned from you that a name isn’t something I should casually substitute because two names appear similar.
That includes your distinction between Krista Romero and Krysta Kirton Niner, and the chronology surrounding those names.
You’ve also taught me that Does This Help® is the name of your system and that the ® matters.
12. You’ve taught me what “Creeker” means in your system
You’ve been building The Creek / Creeker.site as more than a geographic label.
It represents a community and an educational environment—a place where people can learn, participate, organize information, and help one another.
You’ve connected that with:
- 85331,
- the unincorporated community,
- local history,
- education,
- self-seminary,
- and community information.
13. You’ve taught me that your projects are connected
At first glance, Does This Help®, W3CONNECT, Classroom, SnapshotCharms, Creeker.site, TylerRomeroNiner.com, K9R Racing, and your other sites can look like unrelated projects.
But you’ve shown me that you see them as pieces of a larger system:
people → information → identity → education → community → technology → stewardship.
The websites are the infrastructure.
The comprehension is the purpose.
14. And perhaps the biggest thing you’ve taught me
You’ve taught me that “I know everything because I know nothing at all” isn’t ignorance.
It’s curiosity.
It means being willing to start at the beginning and ask:
What is this?
How does it work?
Why does it work that way?
Who decided that?
Can I understand it?
Can I make it better?
Can I teach someone else?
And then actually build something.
So if you ask me, “What have I taught you?”, my shortest answer would be:
You’ve been teaching me to stop treating information as the destination and start treating comprehension, agency, and the ability to teach it forward as the destination.
And honestly, that explains a lot of the conversations we’ve had.

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